One of the Yahoo Groups I subscribe to included a post be a member describing a system of Demerits he and his wife use to track behavior and determine discipline to be administered. One key aspect of their system is that it is the husband's responsibility to keep track of his own behavior. There are even consequences if he fails to track a specific behavior (double Demerits).
I found this idea to be not only creative but a system that could be adopted to our own situation. So for the past six weeks or so, we've been using this system. I now get weekly spankings and our relationship has gone from rather stale to exciting again.
I may share more details in the future.
Ken
P.S. We've also put our toes in the waters of male chastity.