April 28, 2014

Fun & Games at the Safeway

It never ceases to amaze me how Cora seems to attract attention whenever we go shopping 'out and about'. She just seems to bring out the best in people and many fun conversations have resulted from our interactions.  It seems that people can just feel Cora's positive energy and want to experience some of it.  I know that I just love being on the edge of all her energy.

Today was no exception.  We were stocking up on things at our local Safeway and found ourselves engaged with several other customers, but especially one lady.  The conversation just kept going and we were having quite a good time.  So much so that some of the staff, who we already know quite well, had to come to see what all the fun was.  It was certainly 'party time' at the Safeway.

So what does this have to do with our FLR and our blog?  Well, I could sense that Cora and this other woman were both women who enjoyed their power.  And while I don't know if she was a candidate to be the leader of a Female Led Relationship, I certainly felt she had potential.  So I mentioned to Cora to give her one of our cards.  Its a business sized card with a pic of Cora and the link to our website.

So Ma'am (I'll keep her anonymous), if you log on just know that this post is about you.  We thoroughly enjoyed meeting you.

And isn't it interesting to know that you never know when you might run into a 'kindred spirit' somewhere.

April 23, 2014

Ramblings on Paddles and Things

Well its Wednesday and in our house it means 'Maintenance Spanking Day'.  It seems like just yesterday that we recorded our video of one of those Maintenance Spankings.  But that video was taken two weeks ago.  And so far the two videos have racked up a total of over 15,000 views between the two of them on both YouTube and SpankingTube.

So far we have received eight comments on our blog and a few on SpankingTube too.  One of those indicated he thought Cora's dialogue to be 'corney but hilarious'.  Others thought it was 'cute', 'short but to the point' and several liked the fact that I was wearing her panties.  In fact one of the comments 'hoped I would steal more panties, soon'.  Not to worry, I will likely maintain my status as a 'panty thief' and will no doubt get 'caught'.

That's My Panties!!!
I have been spending time getting caught up with our Tumblr sites.  I keep two sites, 'SpankedbymyLady' and 'SpankedbyWife' that I post the pix that are posted here.  I still have a post to catch up with (two now with this one) and I have embedded links to our videos too.
Cora the Girdle Model
You may also be aware that Cora models some of her lingerie (girdles, specifically) and has quite a following on one of the Yahoo Groups.  I have created a Tumblr site, 'LadyCorasGirdles' where I have been posting pictures and videos from her girdle modeling sessions.  And since I have been updating things, her pictures are starting to show up in other sites as her pix are 'ReBlogged'. 

Well, today is Wednesday and I expect that Cora will be applying her Ebony Hairbrush later.  We don't plan on pictures or videos so I expect more of a 'no-nonsense' type of spanking.  Its fun to create videos and take pictures but it does take away some of the focus on getting spanked.  I am looking forward to an 'old fashioned, good, hard spanking' from Cora today. 

Last Wednesday as I was waiting for Cora to deliver last week's maintenance spanking, I thought I'd make an attempt at writing a story.  I thought it would really get me into the mood and indeed it did.  I've thought about writing for quite some time but wasn't sure where to start.  But last Wednesday I just started writing.  Writing about my memories of fifth grade and how my female teacher would offer a choice if she caught you mis-behaving, like talking out of turn in class.  'Spats or Sentences' was the term used and you could either write 500 lines or take a paddling.  Now, I was very much aware of my own sexual attraction to the idea of getting paddled by a strict, female authority figure.  And while I was disciplined several times for things like talking in class, I never had the nerve to take a paddling.  Something I still regret. So I started writing a story about what would happen if I had chosen a paddling. 

One of the first paddles I purchased was a classic 'school paddle'.  It's 18 inches long overall with the handle taking up about 6 inches.  The width is 3-1/2 inches and its about half an inch thick.  Its made out of a light wood, perhaps ash or maple and has a natural finish.  My memories of the paddles used during my grade school years was very similar.  At least that's what I remembered.  So its a little smaller than our classic Spencer and a lot lighter than the PurpleHeart paddle. 
That's the School Paddle in the Middle
So I pulled it off Cora's rack.  I was thinking that I might ask Cora to apply a dozen or so hard swats so that the description in my story might be more accurate.  However, I had completed my story before I could make my request to Cora.  But that paddle remained sitting on our table.  And it did not go unused.

The next day Cora and I got into a 'discussion'.  Well maybe more than just a discussion.  I won't go into the details but lets just say that we both had a strong opinion about something and neither of us was willing to cave.  Don't get me wrong, we were not in a 'fight' or even an argument but were having a light hearted disagreement.
Cora with Her Trusty Spencer
It didn't take very long for Cora to decide to drive her point home.  With a paddle, that is.  So soon I found myself bent over our kitchen table.  Now, normally Cora would go for her Spencer Paddle but she couldn't help but noticing the 'school paddle' still sitting conveniently on the table and decided to grab it.  I soon found myself getting paddled.  And quite hard, too.  No holding back this time.  Cora was determined to get me to change my mind and agree with her. 

Keep in mind that we were both laughing our way through this discussion but I wasn't about to give in.  However, Cora wasn't about to give in, either.  "So, do you agree with me, now," she kept asking, accentuating her point with another hard swat of the paddle.  "No, Ma'am," I politely disagreed.  "Whack," was her reply.  Well, this went on for quite a while and I was really feeling the heat and sting from her paddling.
Cora Lands a Good One!
What the outcome was doesn't matter but finally we both backed down.  But the bottom line (I love those puns!) was that Cora had forgotten how much she likes using that paddle.  I think my future will include a number of padding's from it.  I won't complain. 

Oh and I think I got sufficient results for the research I needed for my story. And my story has been submitted for publishing.  I'll post more on the status of it when I hear back from the publisher.

April 14, 2014

Wednesday is Spanking Day - Part 2

And part 2 is reserved for when Ms. Cora has found my behavior to warrant additional discipline.  In our maintenance spanking arrangement this second part involves Cora applying her Spencer Paddle to my naughty behind.

I think a couple of comments are in order here.  Note that the overall spanking I received last Wednesday was relatively short; about 3 minutes combined.  Compare that to the previous week's session which was about 15 minutes (based upon the music that was playing).  And that week's maintenance spanking did not even require a second part (I was such a good husband!)

So chalk up the shortness to the fact that we haven't done a video for a while.  And there is so many things requiring attention during the creation of a video.  Not that we're making excuses but both Cora and I learn quite a bit from the process.  And we really do appreciate the comments we receive and they also provide great input on how we can improve things. 

So here is the rest of the video:

And as I am writing this, next Wednesday is only two days away!

April 11, 2014

Wednesday is Spanking Day- Part 1

Two days ago (Wednesday) was the day for my scheduled maintenance spanking.  And I did get spanked.  And we set up the video cameras.
Its Wednesday and You're Getting a Spanking!

Its been over a year since we posted one of our videos but after wanting to do another, finally here it is.  We had loads of fun setting things up with both our video cameras.

Over My Knee, NOW!

So rather than write a whole lot about what happened, here it its.  Cora is quite the actress and her entire dialog was totally spontaneous and un-rehearsed.

Oh and this is just the first part of my spanking for the day.  There is a second part in which Cora applied her Spencer Paddle to my naughty backside.  We'll post it when we get it out of the editing studio.


April 8, 2014

Cora's Spanking Chair

I think it may be obvious that Cora and I both prefer the Over-The-Knee position for spanking.  And the OTK position dictates a certain group of spanking implements that work better for the shorter distance between her hand and my bottom.  Thus hairbrushes, OTK Spanking Paddles and her hand are the implements that work best for the OTK position. Now that's not to say that I will receive my share from her larger paddles but that works much better when I am just bent over in front of her and she is standing to my left side in delivering the paddle's kiss.

The OTK position requires Cora to be in a sitting position.  In the past we have used our couch, bed and our kitchen chairs.  However, I have always wanted to find the 'perfect' chair for Cora to use when taking me over her knee for one of my spankings.  While comfortable, the bed and couch just didn't seem to all me to present my bottom in quite the right way and our kitchen chairs are just a little bit too close to the floor.

Yesterday, we were 'out and about' and one of our stops was to be 'Bed, Bath and Beyond'.  Cora loves shopping there and always carries a plethora of coupons from them.  Our usual BB&B store is located in one of those small neighborhood shopping centers but on this occasion we were at one of the major shopping malls in our area.  We had been in this store in the past but were unprepared for the expansion that this particular BB&B had undergone.  Wow!  This store seemed to have everything.  From Coffee, Tea, giant Tootsie Pops, pots and pans, spatulas, kites, bedding, pillows, MP3 speakers and so on, and so on.

So it was no surprise when we stumbled upon a selection of furniture.  There was a kiosk with a few kitchen stools displayed about eye level with boxed items tucked underneath.  I spotted a really nice looking kitchen stool that featured a nicely leather clad seat that had a gentle curve.  It was labeled as a 'Saddle Stool'.  Cora saw me looking at it and immediately instructed me to "take it down and put it on the floor so I can sit in it".  Down it came and Cora found it to be very comfortable.  She then surprised me by saying, "I want to see what its like to have you over my lap". 

Really?  Here in the store?  Well, there was no refusing and quite frankly there was an erotic rush associated with taking the risk of 'getting caught'.  So over I went.  Right there in the store in the classic 'Over-the-Knee' position.  Anyone who might wander by couldn't miss the intent.

Cora felt really comfortable with me over her lap and we decided to purchase one.  Not only did it seem quite sturdy but it was priced right and Cora had coupons!  Oh and it was made in the USA (Illinois).  I was certainly excited that Cora also agreed that we needed a dedicated spanking chair.

When we returned home I was anxious to put the chair together and started to unpack the parts.  Assembly was simple requiring only eight fasteners.  However in my haste to assemble the chair, I knocked over a glass of water.  The result was a resounding 'crash' and broken glass and water all over the floor.  Needless to say, Cora was not happy.  "Just wait until your Wednesday spanking", she said.  "You're really going to get it then!"

Our Wednesday maintenance spanking regimen consists of two parts; an OTK spanking and a second phase for me to atone for any specific misbehavior during the preceding week.  Up to now my Wednesday spankings had only consisted of the first part.  Tomorrow will be the first time Cora will administer a second part to my spanking.  I'm not sure how she will carry out the second phase but I'm guessing it will include a session with one of her larger paddles, most likely the Spencer Paddle.  For me there is always an erotic aspect of an upcoming spanking but this time there is an element of fear and maybe a little dread added knowing that I've got more that the usual OTK spanking coming.  I'm sure there will be more to come in a later post regarding the outcome.

It may even include some time on her 'Chair of Discipline', something that Cora has thought up as an alternative to 'corner time'.

Once the mess was cleared up I did finish putting the chair together.  I wanted Cora to sit in it and let me take a few pictures.  It certainly looks like it will fulfill its function as the perfect 'spanking chair'.

Its 24 inches off the floor which is a full 6 inches taller than our kitchen chairs.  It has no arms and no back to restrict Cora when swinging her hairbrush or paddle.

 When Cora sits back in it and I am draped over her lap the center of gravity should make it quite comfortable for her.  And at its height I will have less support from my arms and legs which should put my bottom in a better position for Cora to apply her hairbrush, paddle or hand.  Indeed I will be at her 'mercy'.
Tomorrow should be an interesting day!

April 3, 2014

Wednesday is Maintenance Spanking Day

Cora and I have attempted to adopt a weekly maintenance spanking schedule.  We have chosen Wednesday as the day.  One of the reasons we have adopted the idea of maintenance spankings is so that we don't loose site of my need and desire to be spanked and her desires to administer a sound spanking.  There are benefits to both of us but sometimes its just too easy to let things go.

We have related the influences from reading Ms. Francy's wonderful books in previous posts.  Cora especially, now better understands the how's and whys and delivers a 'good and hard' spanking, just like I want and need. Cora finds stepping up the intensity is satisfying to her, too.  Apparently very satisfying!

So yesterday (Wednesday), Cora announced, "today is the day and I'm going to spank you good and hard!"  After our morning coffee rituals Cora retired to the bedroom to get dressed.  Once ready, she proceeded to select the implements she planned on using.  These included: which included her new (and now favorite) Ebony Hairbrush, her OTK Spanking Paddle, her Leda Hairbrush and finally the Bottom Burner, a purpleheart paddle that we purchased from the good people at Caniac.

Her Ebony Hairbrush
(her new favorite)
Her OTK Spanking Paddle

Her Nu-West/Leda Hairbrush

Her Caniac Bottom Burner
Once situated in the middle of our couch she beckoned me to her.  "Put on some music", she instructed.  In the past some of the selections from Led Zeppelin seemed to inspire her (she loves to spank with the beat of drummer, John Bonham), so I selected the play list that has our collection stored.  I hit 'random' and then placed myself over Cora's waiting lap.  And inspired she was.  She proceeded to warm me up with a short hand spanking then proceeded to her other 'WAD's (Weapons of Ass Destruction). 
Ebony Hairbrush Ready to Strike
I had hoped to turn on our video cameras and capture the whole thing on video.  However, Cora said, "No, not this time" and delivered a volley of spanks with her hairbrush to accentuate her instruction.  "And if you ask again, I'll paddle you just like that!"  She then switched from hairbrush to paddle to the other paddle to another hairbrush, and so on.  Cora's dialogue included her observations of the different implements, how they sounded on impact and how they felt in her hand.  One comment was that it took lots of effort to spank me with the Caniac paddle and that the Ebony hairbrush took much less effort for about the same impact.  Of course being on the receiving end, I felt quite an impact from both.  They are all interestingly different.

So on she went.  I know that her spanking spanned three songs and based on my memory of the songs that came up, my spanking lasted a solid 15 minutes (maybe more).  Needless to say, I felt one heck of a sting.

Once Cora finished up I talked her into letting me get our camera out so that I could show the results of her spanking.
Wednesday's Results: A Spanking From Cora

  Just for 'fun' I am including a pic taken about two years ago to show the contrast.
Results from Two Years Ago
Believe me, Cora's recent spankings are much more intense then they were back then.  The marks will last for at least 5 days and probably a week.  Just in time for my next maintenance spanking.  Today (Thursday) I am still feeling a noticeable sting and after an inspection, Cora indicates I'm still quite red.  Thank you Ms. Francy!