November 17, 2010
What is this Fascination with Panties?
There is just something fascinating to me about women's panties. I can't remember exactly when I first remembered when it started but I can recall paging through the various Sears, Penney's and Montgomery Ward catalogs. And based upon what I have read from many other men, I am not alone. And its no secret about my fascination with girdles and pantie girdles. Especially when Cora wears hers!
I belong to lots of Yahoo Groups. Many of them are based upon Female Led Relationships but others are not. Recently in one of the other groups, there was a thread that described the experiences of many of the guys also finding a fascination with panties and many described 'up close and personal' experiences. Its obviously something that a number of men (perhaps many men) have in common with me.
A popular movie was released with the title, "Scent of a Woman". I believe there is a reason for this. Its probably buried deep in the earliest part of our evolution, somewhere in our 'crocodial brains' but I do believe that men are wired to be attracted to a woman's scent. Probably something to do with the propagation of the species, or something. Ladies take note: We are addicted to your scent!
In his blog, 'Spankable Husband', Throck describes his own relationship with women's panties. He describes himself not as a 'crossdresser' but play a part with his fascination with spanking. In addition in her new (and excellent) blog, 'A Spanking Marriage', Ms. Susan describes her husbands fascination for panties, too. And she obtained a pair of 'control panties' (oh, how I love the double meaning) for him to wear when she spanks him.
For those of us 'liberated' submissive men, its no secret that we celebrate that power. It seems only natural, then to be obsessed with our Ladies panties. If this subject has gotten your attention, I would suggest you check out Throck's post of November 10. You would also find Ms. Susan's post of November 14, not only informative but an incredible example of erotic writing.
Some of the comments to Throck's post indicated that some of the guys have been made 'off limits' to their Ladies personal panties. Thankfully for me, that is not the case. I think that sometimes its a minor irritation to Cora, but I often 'steal' her panties. Its actually a game with us and one way I 'earn' a spanking. (Her current rate is 25 swats per pair).
Its no secret where I keep my 'stash', so if Cora wants to retrieve a pair, she knows where to look. And when she gets in the mood, she will 'catch' me 'red handed' and issue a Notice of Discipline (and that's why 'Panty Stealing' is one of the boxes on the form). In the meantime, I have the opportunity to enjoy the sweet scent of my lady.
Many of the men in FLR's have shared their preferences regarding wearing panties. Some just like to wear them, some are 'forced' to wear them as a result of a decree from their Ladies and some (like me) like it when their Ladies make them wear them. One thing that is beginning to become apparent is that many FLR women make their naughty boys put on a pair prior to spanking them (if you look close, you can see that I have panties lowered to my knees in the picture of my well spanked bottom).
Over a year ago, I had a legal issue with my eX that led to an impasse. It resulted in the need to resolve the issue in front of a judge in a courtroom. Both the judge and my eX's attorney were women. For reasons I won't go into, I represented myself. The resolution of the issue required two court appearances, but in the end, I prevailed. I took my participation in this process very seriously, including dressing the part. I even purchased a blue pin-stripe suit (think Denny Crane). However, I wonder what the other women who were participates would have thought if they knew that we were all wearing panties! Cora made me wear a pair of her panties (yes, previously worn by her), under the Denny Crane outfit. I must say that it was empowering. VERY empowering. Throck is right; women's panties are a source of power. A very large source of power.
Finding pictures of Cora wearing just panties was a challenge, indeed. I love to photograph her wearing girdles and such but it is rare to get a picture of her in just panties.
But, even if I say so myself, the opening picture of her pantied Derriere is stunning. She is the epitome of why I find a woman's panties and a woman's Derriere to be so attractive.