March 17, 2011

Defending our FLR

One of the blogs I follow is, "Husband in Check" in which Dana describes his own Female Led Relationship with his Lady.  Dana is one of the fellow bloggers I correspond with on occasion.  A couple of days ago, he published a particularly interesting post.  He described a scenario where his Lady and the wife of another couple had set up a proposed shopping trip to an Antique Mall.  It turned out that the wife was 'required' to 'ask permission' before she could go.  Of course, Dana's wife didn't need to ask permission but the husband questioned Dana as to whether his Wife needed to request permission, too.

Rather than completely repeat Dana's well written post, I would suggest you check out his blog.  There is a direct link under the 'Blogs I Follow' area.  But the bottom line is that Dana did not back down when confronted by the husband regarding Dana's Lady being 'in charge' and not having to ask permission for anything.  Later, in an exchange of comments, Dana stated that this turned out to be a 'WOW' moment and his Lady "told me that she couldn't love me anymore than she did at that moment".  Dana further explained that it took him a second or two to respond but that he would have been very disappointed in himself if he had not done so.  I applaud Dana in his being true to himself!

So, Dana, Well Done!  And its nice to know that there are so many other couples like us (and quite a few men who would like to be in our position).  And while some couples keep their relationship style a deep secret, its good to see some of us become comfortable enough to 'come out of the closet'.

Female Led Relationships may be unusual but we are certainly not abnormal.  And the kind comments from our previous post demonstrate how we all benefit by sharing with each other.

I hope Dana's Wife rewarded his actions with a 'good boy' spanking.  I so love it when Cora does rewards me.  And I am proud to say I got one just yesterday and there is still a bit of a tingle remaining.

March 15, 2011

The FLR Community

One of the unexpected benefits of opening this blog over a year ago was connecting with so many others who practice a Female Led Relationship and all that goes with it.  I have been blessed with comments from so many of you and have even struck up friendships as a result.

One of those friendships has been with Serving B and his Magnificent Lady, B.  I am sure most of you are familiar with their blog.  We have communicated back and forth and we have even had a phone call or two.  Well, like so many of you, they have had fun with some of our 'Discipline Forms', both the Notice and Request.

Well, it seems that the clever Mistress B utilized the form to inform Serving B of her intentions to record one of their sessions 'For My Boys Out There'.  She went on to say that she wanted us to see that 'I mean Business When We Have a Session'. B and Serving B graciously shared a copy of the form which is shown above. The result was those wonderful videos that they posted on their blog.  If you haven't already seen them I would suggest you check out their blog.  The videos are wonderful!  You have to scroll back to their post of February 17 and the series continues through February 22.  And of note is that these videos were taken under candle light!  Their videos were an inspiration and our first one was included in our previous post.

And recently we had contact with another FLR couple.  However, in this case they live very close to us.  So last Sunday we met for dinner.  The conversation was wonderful and it was obvious that we experienced an immediate connection.  So we invited them over after dinner.  Of course, we had fun sharing 'Cora's Rack'.  We also shared a 'sneak preview' of a video we had just made a couple of days ago.  I am sure we will be spending time with this couple and who knows, I may get my wish of a 'Double Lap' spanking.  After all the two (hopefully matching) NuWest/Leda hairbrushes are probably only a few days from arriving.

I have attached a few 'Video Snapshots' of the video we took a couple of days ago.  I am not sure if we will post the actual video, (we both think that we can produce something better) but thought we'd share some of the pix from the shoot.  I think you will agree that Cora's 'Starlet Personna' really comes through.

So here she is scolding me.

A hand spanking.

And here she is with her 'famous' hairbrush.

March 6, 2011

The Ubiquitous Hairbrush - Revisited (and our first Video!)

Our previous post about hairbrush resulted in lots of comments.  Its obvious that this particular 'tool' is VERY popular.  For both the Ladies who spank and the men who receive the spankings.

So it should be no surprise that when Cora and I recently visited a local 'Antique Mall', we kept our eye out for traditional hairbrushes; you know, the ones that can be used by our Ladies for purposes other than brushing their hair.

Well, we found the really cool hairbrush.  It looks like its made out of some kind of plastic.  We have no idea how old it is but probably from the 1950's.  Its smaller in size and weight from our favorite Nu-West/Leda hairbrush, however a 'test drive' showed it to be quite effective in disciplining a naughty bottom.

Naturally, we purchased it.  During the check out I remarked to the saleslady, "Every Woman should have a hairbrush, don't you think?".  I don't know if she got the connection, but she did reply with approval.

So now Cora has added another hairbrush to her growing collection.  And here is our first video of Cora showing off her newly found treasure:

And our Thanks to B and Serving B, who inspired us to do our own video after seeing theirs.


Nu-West/Leda Hairbrushes

Funny thing.  I visited the Nu-West/Leda site on Friday.  There was an amazing announcement:  They have found several boxes of their hairbrushes.  Apparently they were hidden away somewhere in their warehouse and only recently found.

So, here is your chance.  Our opinion is that they are absolutely the best hairbrush we have ever seen (or in my case, felt). They are small enough to be perfect for those over-the-knee discipline sessions but heavy enough to blister a naughty boy's bottom. If you visit the Nu-West/Leda site you should have no problem finding how to get one. Tell 'em Ken and Cora sent you.

And while Cora is having fun with her new hairbrush, her Nu-West/Leda hairbrush will be her Number 1.  After all, its the hairbrush Cora is holding in our opening picture.

February 26, 2011

Cora Got 'Serious' Last Night

I got paddled last night.  It was a 'serious' paddling and even thought it was relatively short, Cora layed on the paddle with more intensity than ever before.  I am still feeling the sting.

We have a cat (or is it that the cat has us).  Its a pretty, black breed known as a 'Bombay'.  Well, sometimes I 'play' with her.  Unfortunately, she is really Cora's Cat and doesn't really take to me very much.  So, my intentions of 'playing' with the cat don't get received well and Cora accused me of 'teasing' the cat.

In fact, Cora got rather incensed at what was going on. She had warned me in the past about my attentions with her cat.  And the following happened so fast that it caught me totally by surprise.

First, I found myself spun around and bent over our kitchen table.  Then Cora reached for her 'Spencer' paddle.  After baring my bottom, she layed on some really hard swats.  Perhaps harder than she has ever delivered.  Oh, and no warm up.  Just swat after swat.

I cried out in pain.  Sometimes Cora will 'let up' a bit when this happens.  Not this time.  She just kept delivering intense swat after intense swat.  I was concerned that she might break the paddle, but it retained its reputation as 'indestructable'.  Indeed the result was that I was a well spanked man.

Finally, she let me up.  And it was over and forgiven.  I love that part the best.  And while my bottom was on fire, I knew I had it coming.  But the aftercare is awesome.  I soooooo love this Lady!

On a Side Note:
Thursday marked the one-year anniversary of this blog.  I really had no idea what it would be like a year after starting it, but here we are.  And its been lots and lots of fun.  We have made many, many friends through the blogosphere and found that there is quite a few 'kindred spirits' out there who also enjoy a Female Led Relationship. 

So we wish to say Thanks to all of you who have taken the time to read our blog, and especially to those who have been generous enough to leave comments.

February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day

May all of you beautiful Ladies
with those
Heart-Shaped Derrieres
That we so Love


Get plenty of your own
bright-red heart-shapes

February 12, 2011

The Ubiquitous Hairbrush

In my opinion there is nothing that symbolizes Female Authority better that a wooden hairbrush.  In the time honored tradition, most households included a hairbrush on M'Ladies' dresser.  Thus it was only natural for her to reach for it when she found it necessary to maintain discipline in her household. 

I was lucky enough to have purchased one of these items when Nu-West/Leda was selling them (about 20 years ago, or so).  It seems to be one of the best hairbrushes I have seen and certainly leaves quite an impact when Cora uses it on me.  There was a time that I really hated being spanked with it, then one day Cora had me over her lap and the combination of her strokes and the sound it was making seemed to hit home (pun intended).  Not only was I feeling well spanked (very well spanked!), but also aroused (very aroused).  Since then I can't seem to get enough of her hairbrush.  Fortunately, she likes to use it, too (more on that later).

At one time it seemed that the traditional flat-backed, wooden hairbrush were becoming extinct.  However, I have found that they may be on a comeback.  I have found quite a few examples recently in our local pharmacy. Now, these aren't the plastic brushes or those wooden brushes with some kind of plastic inlay to hold the brushes (and loose much of their weight), but real wood with all the weight that results in solid impact on a naughty bottom.  And I have made a point of obtaining several examples (for scientific purposes, of course!).  I also found them to be very affordable (often less than $10.00).

A while back I saw a particularly large example and I guess its really a 'bath brush'.  Its something that Cora had not used very much.  I think she likes to stick with tools with which she is familiar.  Sort of a comfort level.

Well, a couple of days ago, I decided to take some pix of our hairbrush collection and set them up on the bed.  Included in the line-up was the large brush.  Cora decided that she wasn't going to let the opportunity pass her by and after I had all the pictures I needed, she issued the instruction, "Over my Lap!"











Of course, I complied.  After there is nothing better than a spontaneous spanking from Cora.  There was no particular reason to get spanked other that 'she wanted to'.  Again one of my favorite scenarios as it comes under the heading of a 'fun spanking'.  Fun for both of us!

I expected that she would pick up the Nu-West/Leda hairbrush.  Instead, much to my surprise, she reached for the longer 'bath brush' and started to spank me.  I could tell that this was different as it was quite intense.  Cora told me she really liked this brush and would probably start using it more often.  She related, "its more spank with less effort on my part".  Needless to say, when she was done my bottom was very red and stinging.  I certainly felt an afterglow for the rest of the day.

So now Cora's 'Bedroom Rack includes a new member.  And I expect it won't get lonely.  In fact we actually have a pair of these 'weapons of ass destruction'.  I guess you never know when another Lady may show up and need one, too.

As I am finishing up this post, I shared with Cora just how aroused I was revisiting that spanking.  "Well, then maybe I should give you a refresher".  She then grabbed my arm and led me to the table where she bent me over and bared my  bottom.  She then utilized about half her 'Rack' and again left me with a red, stingy bottom.  And as I finish this post, I certainly am enjoying the afterglow.

Oh, how I love being under her spell!

February 1, 2011

Spanking and Pain

I went to the dentist yesterday.  It was necessary to replace a crown and the appointment was for the preparation.  Sitting in the chair, I found it more pleasant if I let my mind wander to thoughts of my Lady and her spanking me.

Now, don't get me wrong, I do appreciate the strides of modern dentistry.  And I finally figured out that its much less painful if the dentist if female.  Being hovered over by two delightful women (the dental assistant is also female), isn't all that bad.  Then there is the aspect of being 'under their power'.  Its not exactly a 'sexual' thing but I think you know what I mean.  Oh, and by the way, my dentist is a really nice woman and is one of the more gentler dentists I have had experience with.

However, much of what happens during one of these processes hurts.  I especially hate the 'needle' when being given anaesthetic.  And after a while, holding ones mouth open can get painful, too.  And when the anaesthetic wears off....  Well, its nice that there are pain meds.  (BTW, I am composing this prior to taking some as I remember the disaster that occurred with one of my September posts that was made while under the influence of the pain meds).
So why is it that the pain is different when I am spanked?  I can't answer that, other than there is sexual energy flowing like crazy.  And I know that many of the men who either blog or keep in touch through e-Mail, have different aspects about being spanked by their ladies.  Many speak of the 'excitement' both before and after a spanking, but hate the actual spanking, itself.  On the other hand, I rather enjoy the process of submitting to my Lady, presenting my bottom for chastisement and letting her wail away at me.  I find that if I concentrate on my breathing, things can actually be pleasant (unless, of course, I am being spanked as a result of displeasing Cora).  Especially when I reach that 'plateau' when the endorphins kick in.

(Hmmm, now just where did I put those 'Request For Discipline' forms?)