2023!

 Today is a day in May, 2023.  I don't know if anyone is following us as its been almost two years since our last post.  I won't even try to make excuses and our last post speaks of many things that still apply.

I have received an inquiry or two regarding our lifestyle and its been delightful to hear from them.  I'm not making any promises but perhaps I'll elaborate in a later post.  Its very satisfying to hear from others into many of the things that we have written about.  Oh, and I still get spankings from Lady Cora.  I found a source of some really nice paddles and that could be material for a future post.

And there is still interest in our 'Notice of Discipline' forms.  I have e-Mailed a number of the forms in answer to a request. 

Surviving

Well, we've survived the Green Goo, the Orange Menace and currently working on diffusing he Grey Gloom.  We are trying hard to just move on.  

Lady Cora and I are still not up to the days when she would get into her FLR state of mind and discipline me. We really enjoyed taking photos and videos and sharing them with our friends here on our blog.

So while there are no new photos or videos to share, I thought I'd share a few video snaps from one of our videos from a few years back. The video is still up on 'Spanking Tube' (search for 'SpankedbyWife").  Yesterday I got inspired and composed a few new scenes from that video and captured the spirit of things the way they were back then.

Naughty Boys Get Paddled

Ready, Aim

 

Impact!

 

What Must Be Said

This morning I was greeted by an e-Mail from the owner of the site, "All Things Spanking".  He indicated that he was 'restarting' and wanted to let me know that our blog was listed on his.  Needless to say, we were flattered by his post.  And even though it took a bit of re-discovery, I added his listing to our blog list.

As I was looking at a few of the blogs listed on our site I just happened to open up 'My Bottom Smarts' which is hosted by Bonnie.  Now Bonnie has been around for a long time and is someone who I have a deep respect for as she has always been helpful to her fellow bloggers.

Her post of June 6 is especially touching: "What Must Be Said".  I would suggest to go to her site and read it. Her Blog is on our list of  'Blogs We Follow" on the right side of our postings.  Her blog listing is on the bottom (I don't know why on the bottom of the list) so its easy to find from here.

Cora and I have not been very active since 2016 and have only posted 5 times since (including this post).  I had refrained from explaining why but it is related to the things Bonnie covers in her post.  We really didn't want to dip our feet into the waters of politics as we feel its dangerous and serves no purpose, especially related to our FLR theme of this blog.

However, its now time to speak out on "What Must Be Said".

Thank You Bonnie!

Spanked For Inappropriate Behavior

Its been a while since our last post.  We are actually doing quite well and have been in a self-quarantine for almost three months.  We have been getting all we need through deliveries and have only ventured out once so that we could deposit our Covid check and get our propane tank filled in order to use our grill.

We have developed a regular routine for Saturday evenings.  We start things about 5:00 PM.  Cora prepares two trays of cold cuts, sliced cheese, cauliflower, broccoli and small pieces for bread.  Once things have been prepared we settle into our theater room and watch movies.  This concludes by watching this week's feature from 'Svengoolie'.  His narration of the classic horror movies is very entertaining.  This week's feature was the 1935 'Bride of Frankenstein'.  We decided to watch Mel Brooks' 'Young Frankenstein' first.  It was a delightful combination.

About 6:30 PM we too a break to refresh cocktails and add a small amount to our trays.  During the process I tried to pick up the cauliflower but apparently did so with a slight 'attitude'.  Cora immediately went into 'Disciplinarian Mode'. 

I recently downloaded a couple of items from the internet and printed them on 4 by 6 photo paper.

In addition I printed two of my favorite photos of Cora.

Cora loves to make collages from photos and created the following using the photos I printed.

Recently I had shared a story from 'The Spanking Library' in which a 17 year old boy convinced his step-mother to spank him.  Her preferred method was bare bottom, over her knee with a Jokari paddle.  I think Cora became inspired by this story and hung hers below her collage along with her favorite leather paddle

So Cora had close access to her Jokari paddle and decided she wanted to put it to good use.  She bent me over the kitchen counter where I had been standing.  The then proceeded to deliver a few really hard swats from her Jokari paddle.  The Jokari paddle is a very effective disciplinary tool and is one of the few that works well in the Over-The-Knee or Bend-Over-And-Touch-Your-Toes positions.  It was obvious from the first swat that Cora was going to make a point, and a point she did make.  Actually several.

After delivering her paddling, Cora returned the Jokari to its hanger but first said, "Do you think I should administer another session?"  My reflexes kicked in and I answered "No, Ma'am".  And that was the end of it and we returned to having a very pleasant evening.  However I felt that I had been put in my place, feeling quite humble from her disciplinary actions.  I later confirmed that Cora felt quite satisfied after paddling me.

Looking back, although Cora had administered  a sufficient sting into my backside. I almost wished she had not taken my 'No' answer and instead had administered another session.

Implementation of a Demerit System

One of the Yahoo Groups I subscribe to included a post be a member describing a system of Demerits he and his wife use to track behavior and determine discipline to be administered.  One key aspect of their system is that it is the husband's responsibility to keep track of his own behavior.  There are even consequences if he fails to track a specific behavior (double Demerits). 

I found this idea to be not only creative but a system that could be adopted to our own situation.  So for the past six weeks or so, we've been using this system.  I now get weekly spankings and our relationship has gone from rather stale to exciting again. 

I may share more details in the future.

Ken

P.S.  We've also put our toes in the waters of male chastity.

Still into a Female Led Marriage/Relationship

Yes, we've been dormant for a while but lately things have been heating up (pun intended).  About seven weeks ago we have been implementing a Demerit system.  It was inspired by a post on the 'Spanked_by_their_Wives' Yahoo group. 

We have also been putting our toe in the water of Chastity.

I plan to post more information in the future, especially the details of our Demerit system since its working where other systems we've tried have failed.

Ken

Its Been a While

Yes, we've been 'dormant' for over two years.  Its been a rather frustrating time and I'm not going to go into details.  Just know that we're still here and for the most part doing fine.

I still enjoy reading and the subject matter includes things relating to our FLR lifestyle.  Yesterday I decided to purchase a couple of items from Scarlett Hill Enterprises.  They publish e-Zines that deal with Women-Spanking-Men subject matter.  We've written about them in the past and my connection goes back to when they were publishing with paper.

So, it was amazing when I opened up the latest 'Spank-Happy Wives' (issue number 8) and found two photos of Cora and I!  The photos were of Cora and I at our wedding and were being used to illustrate one of the letters that had been submitted to Barbara, one of the editors at S.H.E.

The above two photos appeared with the following caption:

"We couldn't ask for or come up with any better illustrations to enhance this letter then these heart & seat warming snaps from the ceremony that united our dear friends Lady Cora and her couldn't be spank-happier spouse in the bonds of marriage & world of blogging about it before the demands of doing so rendered spankedbymylady.blogspot.com dormant."

Needless to say, we are very flattered by the kind words from S.H.E.  I later corresponded with Barbara and she graciously granted permission to use anything from them in our blog.

We're not sure how often we'll post in the future but we couldn't resist sharing the results of the kindness of the publishers at S.H.E.