February 14, 2012

Happy Valentine's Day, Cora

Rarely do I write something directed at one person but today is an exception:

I want to wish my Lady the Happiest of Valentine's Day!

I am one lucky guy and I want the entire planet to know how much I love You!!

February 12, 2012

Video Fun

First, we wish to thank all of you who left comments about our latest video.  I thought I'd express our gratitude in a new post as I never know if anyone goes back to read a 'Comment in response to a Comment'.  The response to the video has been very exciting and we are looking forward to adding more.


Meanwhile, in the process of learning the video editor, I pulled some 'footage' I shot of Cora a while back.  She and I had some fun composing a video from it.  Its just a short one and isn't really related to the FLR relationship but instead shows off Cora's 'glamour modeling' talents.  And, hey, Cora's red dress is so appropriate for the upcoming Valentine's day (don't you think?).

So we hope you can allow us to indulge sharing it with you.  This one is on YouTube.

February 10, 2012

Screen Test

Last weekend Cora and I decided to 'experiment' with our new video camera and the accessories we have to go with it.  This new camera (a Canon M-40) is really easy to use.


We set up in our living room area and even used our main TV to 'monitor' what the camera was seeing.  The natural light worked really great and I even had to reduce the exposure just a tad.  Cora sat on our couch and we planned to try some OTK shots.  We shot a total of five 'takes'.  Needless to say, at the end of the fifth take, I was sporting a rather red bottom.  In addition, watching herself spanking me, Cora found that it looked better if she spanked harder.  The 'end' result was that I was left with quite a glow from my stinging bottom.  Oh well, small sacrifice for 'Hollywood North'!

Besides the new camera, I have been learning a new video editor (Apple's Final Cut Express).  And after I had manipulated the video, Cora and I found that we really liked the results.  Cora especially liked the fourth 'take'.

So even though we had no plans to publish it, here it is.  And if you wish to see it in full HD, don't forget to click on the 'HD button' that appears below the video towards the right side.  And if you want to see it in 'full screen', just drop over to 'SpankingTube' which is were the original has been uploaded.


February 4, 2012

New Toys and a Spanking

I have mentioned Dana Kane's blog several times.  She writes a really good blog, has done some amazing videos and has assisted us in some 'behind the scene' technical help.

One of Ms. Kane's videos featured a OTK rug beater that is offered by 'Cane-Iac'.  When I showed this video to Cora she said, "Get one!"  So I hopped onto the Cane-Iac site and located the OTK rug beater.  Sadly, they were out of stock on this item.  Apparently, Ms. Kane's video had quite an 'impact' on their supply.  (Note:  since then they have restocked and Cora now has one.  More on that later).

So, I decided to 'surf' through the site and found some really cool items.  One was a 5 minute hour glass.  I guess technically you would call it a 1/12 Hour Glass.  :-) 

Funny thing, it was only a few days prior to this that we had visited an antique 'mall' near us.  They had a 3 minute egg timer style hour glass but it was very small.  I mentioned to Cora that I thought it would be cool to find an hour glass to go along with some of our 'play'.

That was a couple of weeks ago.  Fast forward to this morning.  Now, I know that many of the male readers probably do a bit of 'web-surfing'.  There is a plethora of FLR things available and I have to admit that I love 'looking around', too.  I don't keep any secrets from Cora and she encourages my time on the computer.   After all, she has gotten many ideas as a result.

I always get up before Cora.  I usually let the pups out, feed them, turn on the espresso machine and then turn on the computer.  This morning, Cora came down earlier than normal and I could tell her mood was 'playful'.

"What are you doing!", she called out.  "Um, er, nothing.  Just getting the espresso machine going". 

"Sure!", she exclaimed and headed to my laptop.  She inspected what was on the computer screen and announced, "You are getting a spanking, later!".

What else could I respond except, "Yes, Ma'am".  I then proceeded to make one of my special espresso concoctions: an Almond Joy - espresso combination.  One of the coffee creamer companies has just produced an Almond Joy flavored coffee creamer.  I microwave 2 ounces of this and add it to a double shot of espresso.  On top of that I add whipped cream from a can.  She absolutely loves this.  This morning she requested a second.

So, with a good coffee-sugar buzz, Cora was not only in a good mood but her energy level was doing quite well.

We adjourned to the bedroom to prepare for the day.  Cora likes to make our bed 'just so' and had completed her task.  She then layed out two pillows near the foot of the bed.  "Over", she instructed. I positioned myself along the foot of the bed presenting my bare bottom for whatever she had in mind.  This was the very first time she had positioned me in this manner.  I was wondering what she had in mind.


Cora then proceeded to attend to a few other things while I lay there waiting.  "I will be right back", I announced and headed to the kitchen.  I then retrieved our new 'hour' glass and returned to the bedroom.  "Good idea!", Cora exclaimed.  I then returned to my original position over the pillows.  Cora then grabbed a couple of items from her bedroom 'Rack', turned over the hour glass and proceeded to administer the spanking that she had promised earlier.

Cora's 'Bedroom Rack'

So, for five minutes I was being spanked by most of the implements on her rack. In fact partway through, she went into her dresser and retrieved a second hairbrush and proceed to spank me two-handed.  Wow!  That was an amazing sensation and really got my attention.  She concluded her session by pulling out her purpleheart 'purse paddle' and gave me several strokes from it.  It has been quite some time since she has used her purse paddle and I had forgotten how intense that little paddle (8 inches long) could be.  Finally, the sand ran out of the hour glass.  However Cora kept going for at least another half minute or so.

When it was over, I was left with a very nice glow.  That must have been 6 or 7 hours ago and I still have one of those really nice 'afterglows'.  I think I will be reminded of my spanking for quite some time.

It was a really nice spanking from Cora and I am glad I got 'caught'.  Oh, and that implement on the far left of Cora's bedroom 'Rack' is another implement that we purchased from Cane-Iac.  Its a purpleheart 'Bottom Burner' and is very well named.  Cora loves purpleheart and decided she wanted me to get one for her.  Who am I not to comply?  Anyway, the 'Bottom Burner' will probable be the source of another post, along with several other items we have obtained from them.  They provide some really nice items and are very reasonably priced.  I have added them to the list of resources on the blog.

January 29, 2012

Ma'am, Yes Ma'am is Back!!!

It didn't take WdSpoone long to get back into the blogosphere.  He has quickly set things up and 'back on the air' although on a different blog host.  Rather than repeat what he has to say, I would refer you to his blog where he explains what happened.

Here is his new URL:

I have updated the link to it on our list of blogs, too.

There has been quite a number of posts about his blog and we are all wondering if Censorship is something that will haunt more of us.  I think the best thing is to keep in touch through whatever means necessary.  We have a very strong community and the Ma'am, Yes Ma'am issue illustrates just how tight our community is, and how we come together when these things happen.

Cora Celebrates the Return of Ma'am, Yes Ma'am!

January 27, 2012

What Happened to 'Ma'am, Yes Ma'am'

The blogosphere has been alive with posts about the 'disappearance' of one of our favorite blogs, 'Ma'am, Yes Ma'am'.  The author of this blog, WdSpoone is one of the cornerstones of Female Led Relationship blogs and has inspired almost all of us who have followed.  We are No exception.  I have chatted with WdSpoone on several times and he has been generous with suggestions and guidance.  Very Generous.

Today, a message appeared on his Yahoo Group (Spanking female male) that indicated that he did not remove his blog but instead 'rather it has been "removed" apparently by Google without my knowledge or consent.'

I have tried to stay out of the political sphere but my reaction to this news is that it is OUTRAGEOUS.  Of course there is no recourse to the gods at Google or Yahoo.  I myself, had an account at 'flickr' cancelled with very little notice and for reasons that seemed very insignificant, at best.  I made an assumption that someone made a complaint and that was that.  I have no specific information but why would anyone object to Women being in control.  (Well, that's rhetorical but I think you know the answer).

So stay tuned.  Will there be a mass cancellation of Female Led Relationship blogs?  Perhaps.  But I hope someone has a suggestion of a sex-positive, Female Friendly host that we might consider moving our blogs to.

I know that many of my fellow bloggers read our blog and I would ask that you e-Mail us as a way to keep in touch.  Maybe I am being afraid of Black Helicopters, or Dick Cheney, but I think it would be good to establish a base in the event that we are under some kind of attack.

I just can't imagine why WdSpoone's blog has been the target of some kind of evil conspiracy.  But without a reason given, my own mind is running wild.

Ken and Cora
(SpankedbyWife(at)Yahoo(dot)Com

January 18, 2012

A Magickal Night with another FLR Couple

While there is a considerable number of couples following of the FLR lifestyle as evidenced by the number of blogs, comments and e-Mails, unfortunately we don't get much of a chance to have face to face meetings with them.

Last April Cora and I did meet with another FLR couple.  We had  a wonderful time and it was at that time that I experienced the fulfillment of one of my biggest fantasies - a Double Lap Spanking!

Saturday night, we hosted them again. While they have established a FLR lifestyle, she has perhaps not been comfortable with aspects of disciplining him.  Sound familiar? 

Cora Showing Her Cropping Technique

Well, Cora just never ceases to amaze me.  Saturday night Cora became 'Super Mentor' and proceeded to take charge of the evening, demonstrating FLR, Cora style.  I think she has achieved a level of comfort with the discipline aspects of FLR that she may not have had before.  I could see the energy sparks between Cora and her as Cora showed her 'the ropes'.  I am sure that he felt those sparks as she was laying it on pretty hard.  Later he shared with me that she has never disciplined him quite that hard but that he loved it.

Cora Demonstrating Her Rack

Recent posts have addressed the subject of wives providing the needs of their husbands in the form of firm, strict discipline which they may be reluctant to provide.  Of course there are many benefits the wives get from a FLR too.  But one benefit that perhaps gets lost is the joy of actually applying the paddle (or instrument of choice) to their husbands.  I know that Cora often expresses an euphoric feeling when she spanks me, and I think that Cora was not the only one feeling the same thing last night.  Perhaps for the first time.

A Capable Disciplinarian

It was fun watching things develop last night and we even gave them one of the Spencer Paddles I have made.  Since Saturday's meeting we have been in contact with them and it sounds like we will be getting together soon.  One of the suggestions from them as a night of 'Spanking and a Movie'.  Cora and I both love the thought.